Showing posts with label homophobia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label homophobia. Show all posts

Sunday, November 11, 2012

"Bullying" is a euphemism.

"If we actually started calling bullying what it is and address it as racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, fat phobia, and classism, it would actually give children a better way to deal with the very same power dynamics they will face as adults, while also giving adults more responsibility to challenge the intolerance that is rooted within our society overall."
--Amanda Levitt, of Fat Body Politics

(via come correct

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

I'm black. "Ally" isn't even a strong enough term for my support of gay rights. THIS ISN'T THAT RADICAL. Get over it.

“It is something resting with the parties themselves, for them to decide. If they choose to face this possible prejudice and think that their own pursuit of happiness is better subserved by entering into this marriage with all its risks than by spending the rest of their lives without each other’s company and comfort, the state should not and cannot stop them.” –Justice Carter, Perez v. Lippold (California Supreme Court case from 1948)

The powerful language found in this week’s readings for my Race and the American Legal Process class, regarding the nullification of antimiscegenation laws struck me not only for the sheer forcefulness of the Courts’ opinion, but also for the clear and profound connections these decisions seemingly should have to the current gay rights movement. I have always had an understanding that the gay rights movement has ties to the civil rights movement, and as such been thoroughly disgusted with the heteronormativity and blatant homophobia that categorize such a substantial percentage the African-American community at large, but these court cases have elevated that understanding to a new level; I honestly cannot understand how, with such potent precedent to stand on the shoulders of, LGBT rights activists have not yet secured marriage as a “fundamental…basic civil right” for same-sex couples. My first question is what exactly places the freedom to marry within the scope of basic civil rights; when was it first guaranteed that citizens of the United States have a right to marry? And after gaining a better understanding of that history, I would like to know how the heteronormativity and homophobia that led to the Defense of Marriage Act differ from the white supremacy and precept of inferiority that led to the antimiscegenation and criminalization-of-sexual-relations laws Justices Traynor, Carter, and Warren speak so forcefully against?

Call me naïve, but I am imagining a world in which the quotes from the Perez v. Lippold and Loving v. Virginia read like this:

“Since the right to marry is the right to join in marriage with the person of one’s choice, a statute that prohibits an individual from marrying a member [of his or her same sex] restricts the scope of his choice and thereby restricts his right to marry.”

“The right to marry is the right of individuals, not of [groups of people with the same sexual orientation].”

“Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry or not marry, a person of [the same sex] resides within the individual and cannot be infringed by the State.”

Are these conceived statements really so farfetched? What would it take to bring them to fruition?

Friday, November 19, 2010

I Made a Difference

That's what my sticker from the Red Cross says. I donated blood today. One pint can save three lives. And because I'm African-American, my blood will most likely be used to save the lives of black children with sickle cell anemia, as 90% of all sickle cell cases in the US affect African-Americans.

This makes me feel good.

But so, so much of what the Red Cross stands for makes me feel terrible. It's hard for me to reconcile the three lives I will have saved with my actions today with the fact that my actions today supported an institution that so blatantly discriminates against so many of my friends. You can't give blood if you're under age 16, or if you weigh less than 110 pounds. You can't give blood if you're a drug addict, or if you use steroids, or if you're a prostitute. You can't give blood if you've ever tested positive for HIV, if you had an STI in the last year, if you've had malaria in the last 3 years. These things I can understand.

What I cannot and will not understand, now or ever, is the fact that you are ineligible to donate blood if you:
are a male who has had sexual contact with another male, even once, since 1977.
I cannot and will not understand why one of the pre-screening questions asked me if I have ever had sexual contact with a person who was born in Africa.

DEAR RED CROSS, YOUR DISGUSTINGLY OVERT HOMOPHOBIA MADE SENSE IN THE 1980S, BUT HEY, GUESS WHAT, BLACK WOMEN HAVE THE HIGHEST AIDS RATES IN THE US NOW, NOT GAY MEN. AS A GROUP, THEY'RE AT NO SIGNIFICANTLY HIGHER RATE OF CARRYING HIV THAN THE REST OF THE POPULATION. SO SLOW YOUR ROLL AND ALLOW MY FRIENDS F, M, S, R, B, A, ETC. TO DONATE. 
AND HEY, GUESS WHAT, NOT ALL OF AFRICA HAS RAMPANT AIDS. THERE ARE CERTAIN COUNTRIES THAT PUT YOU AT A SIGNIFICANTLY HIGHER RISK, BUT AFRICA IS NOT A CONTINENT TO BE BLANKET-DISCRIMINATED OVER. I'M NOT SURE MY ANCESTORS EVEN COME PREDOMINANTLY FROM AFRICA, BUT I AM OFFENDED BY THIS QUESTION, AND I AM FURTHER OFFENDED THAT HEY, GUESS WHAT, I WOULD HAVE IN THE PAST, AND HAVE NO OBJECTIONS TOWARDS IN THE FUTURE, FUCKING AN AFRICAN MAN AND IF THAT MEANS YOU DON'T WANT MY BLOOD THEN I DON'T THINK I SHOULD WANT TO DONATE.

The Red Cross is one of the most politically incorrect national organizations in this country, and I want something to be done about this. They're legitimately begging African-Americans to donate blood and marrow, but turning away hundreds of thousands of healthy willing gay black males who could, together, save literally MILLIONS of lives. Would I have been turned away if I'd slept with J? Are you anti-amalgamation too, Red Cross? Fuck you. FUCK YOU, RED CROSS. I love and respect all the help and good you do for this country, but I hate that you make me feel bad about doing good. Something is wrong there, and I am begging you to check yourself before I have to team up with the protesters and stop saving lives. 

How many more lives could Princetonians have saved today? Are your bigotry and your illegitimate fears worth their lives? ...I didn't think so.